I talked to my husband about a post I saw in here recently about a woman talking about her husband gaining weight. After, I asked him if he was still attracted to me and the awkward silence that followed gave me the answer I pretty much knew was coming. How can he be attracted to somebody who hates what they see in the mirror? So now comes the extra push of getting myself down to a better, healthier weight to keep my marriage.
For me, the changes have to me small ones in order to stick vs doing everything at once. When I try to do everything at once, it feels like one thing goes wrong and I give up. Now I guess I have extra motivation to keep trying.
And before anybody jumps in to make a rude comment about him, he said he still finds me funny and smart and he still loves me, but some of the physical attraction is gone.
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