How do you deal with strained friendships due to weight loss jealousy? One friend has gotten crazy nasty to me over the past year. Nothing really has changed in our friendship, aside from the fact that I've gotten much more fit and look pretty different. Ive had to deal with backhanded compliments a lot and how I'm obsessed with dieting and fitness. I am careful to never talk about dieting or working out in front of her, as I know it probably triggers her own insecurities with being an overweight woman. It's gotten increasingly worse though. This weekend at the bar a few men ended up buying me drinks and my friend was so upset that she wasn't getting attention, she ended up storming out of the bar and later even wrecking her car. My other friend later confided in me that she'd been gossiping about me all day. I don't have issues cutting people out of my life, but I kind of struggle how to handle this. If I cut her off it will strain my relationships with other friends that our part of our friend group. But I also didnt think I'd get so much backlash from something so personal as improving my health.
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